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6 Ways To Approach That Hot Guy

How to have him eating from the palm of your hand in no time

BY Joan Thatiah

May 25, 2023, 08:48 AM

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It’s 2023. We are no longer sitting on our hands, pouting our lips and flicking our hair, and hoping to catch his eye. We’ve had it and we’re going after what we want.

So you’ve already identified the guy that you’re sure will make your world go round. Keep your eyes trained on him. Here are five surefire ways to grab his attention.

Confidence Is Sexy. Always!

Mr Hotness over there is not going to think there is something special about you if you are trying to blend in with the rest of the people in the room. Stand with your back up straight, walk with your head held high and hold his gaze.

They say that men are attracted to vulnerable women – you know, tipsy women and young women. The truth is that men are even more attracted to confident women. To women who know exactly what they want and are not afraid to strut across the room to make this point known.

Compliment His Clothes.

Do you know how you have everyone complimenting you when you put a little effort into choosing your day’s outfits? It’s not the same for men. Compliments are rare so if you give him one, he will know right away that you are interested in him. Once you get an opportunity to talk to him, ask him questions about his life. People feel good talking about themselves.

Your Eyes Are Your Weapon.

You can tell the hot guy you are thirsting after everything he needs to hear without ever uttering a word. When he glances your way, resist the urge to look away shyly and take this opportunity instead to flirt with him through your eyes. Lip licking and playing with your hair will also work great at this point.

Be Obvious.

They say that sometimes the best solution to a situation is the most obvious one. It is so when it comes to getting the hot guy across the room to notice you. Try walking right up to him and telling him you like his shirt. Even better, ask him out on a date.

Chances are, he will be surprised and flattered and this time next year, you could be sipping a cold drink on a beach somewhere with him lying next to you. If he freaks out, then he’s not the kind of man you are looking for.

Don’t Take It Personally.

Going after the guy you like means making yourself vulnerable. However, as with all things in life, it may or may not work. He may not be interested or you may be the best-looking thing he has seen in months but he is seeing someone else.

Either way, don’t retreat into your shell lest you miss out on the next thirst trap which may very well fall for you. We are kicking out negative vibes here. Go get him, sis.

Take A Leap Of Faith.

You know what, just build up the confidence and do it. Pump yourself up and approach him. If he rejects you, the worst that will happen is your feelings will get hurt but within two days or so you will be over it. If he doesn't reject you, it will be a win for you. You will be happy that you never waited for months and months to approach him.